Margherita Lotti — “Rita” for short — was born in the small township of Roccaporena in Umbria, probably in 1371.
Her parents, poor farmers, and peasants made sure she had good schooling and religious education in the nearby Cascia, in the care of the Augustinian friars. From the friars, Rita learned devotion to St. Augustine, St. John the Baptist and Nicholas of Tolentino, whom Rita chose as his patron saints.
Around 1385, Rita married Paolo di Ferdinando di Mancino, who became involved with controversies and political rivalries of the day. Rita, however, through prayer, patience and the ability to pacify that she learned from his parents, helped her spouse slowly but surely to live a more authentically Christian way of life.
With love, understanding and patience, Rita and Paolo enjoyed a fruitful union, and produced two boys: Giangiacomo and Paolo Maria. Their domestic serenity would not last, however. Owing to his kinship bonds and the ever-present factional strife of the era, Rita’s husband was murdered.
To avoid having the children seek revenge, Rita hid their father’s bloody shirt. In her heart Rita forgives her husband’s murderers, but the Mancino family refused to let the incident pass unanswered and pressed for revenge. Rancor and hostility arose. Rita prayed that more bloodshed be spared and made that prayer her weapon and consolation. Nevertheless, the tribulations did not cease. A disease caused the death of Giangiacomo and Paul Maria: her only comfort was to think of their souls.
Left alone in the world, Rita began a life of more intense prayer for her dear deceased family members, but also for the di Mancino family, that they might forgive and find peace. At age 36, she asked to be welcomed by the Augustinian nuns of the Monastery of Santa Maria Maddalena of Cascia, but her request is rejected. It is possible that the religious feared the entrance of Rita — a widow of a murdered man — might have jeopardized the security of their community. Rita’s prayers and the intercessions of her patron saints instead lead to the peace between the families involved in the killing of Paolo di Mancino, and after so many obstacles, she was allowed to enter the monastery.
It is reported that the Abbess tested Rita’s humility during her novitiate, asked her to water an arid wood. Her obedience was rewarded by God with a lush growth that flourishes to this day. Through the years, Rita distinguished herself as a humble, zealous religious woman in prayer and in all tasks with which she was entrusted, and as one capable of frequent fasting and penance. Her virtues were also known outside the monastery walls, owing particularly to the charitable works to which Rita was devoted with her sisters. She especially visited the elderly, cared for the sick, and assisted the poor.
More and more immersed in the contemplation of Christ, Rita eventually asked to be able to participate in his Passion, and in 1432, in prayer, she discovered on her forehead a wound like the one from the thorny crown worn by Christ. It remained there until her death 15 years later.
In the winter before her death, ill and confined to her bed, Rita asked a cousin, visiting from Roccaporena, to bring her two figs and a rose from the garden of her father’s house. It was January. Rita’s visitor humored her, thinking her dear cousin was delirious. She was astonished to find the rose and the figs and brought them to Cascia. For Rita, they were a sign of the goodness of God, who welcomed her two sons and her husband into heaven. Rita died in the night between May 21 and 22, 1447.
Because of the great cult that grew up around her immediately afterward, her body was never buried. Today, her earthly remains are housed in a glass casket. Rita was able to flourish despite the thorns that life reserved for her. She emanated the good perfume of Christ and melted the frosty winter of so many hearts. For this reason, and in remembrance of her, Rita’s symbol is the rose. Often, even today, roses are given her remembrance on her feast day. She is the patron saint of impossible causes, abuse victims and widows.
Adapted by A.J. Valentini from: St. Rita of Cascia, Agostinian – Information on the – Vatican News. (n.d.). Vatican News. Retrieved May 10, 2021, from https://www.vaticannews.va/en/saints/05/22/st–rita-of-cascia–agostinian.html